Henry improves his own weaknesses and this improves his relationship with Alice

Hi Everyone,

Henry C had written to me a few weeks ago regarding the difficulties his girl friend, Alice, had in demonstrating love for him.  l recently asked him how he and Alice were progressing on this issue and his response is given below.  Note that he worked on himself, not her, and is getting meaningful results.  He says, "... I have noticed my relationship with Alice improving. It has improved in the way that I am accepting her the way she is, I don't have the same expectations or rules as to how she must show her love for me."

e-hugs, Gary


Hello Gary
I will tell you that after working with Optimal EFT on my own emotional issues, many of them triggered by my relationship with Alice, I have discovered many weaknesses and flaws of character in myself. I have been healing myself of these and as a result I have noticed my relationship with Alice improving. It has improved in the way that I am accepting her the way she is, I don't have the same expectations or rules as to how she must show her love for me. I still have some expectations but my attachment has diminished. In a way by healing myself I have healed her too somehow. I even had this insight that "By healing myself I am healing also the world".
Thanks a lot for everything you did and continue to do for us all.
I feel now committed to heal myself and the world
Peace and hugs
Henry