The special blessings of Optimal EFT and Forgiveness

Hi Everyone,

Diane Roy brings us this inspiring true story.  She says, "My sister now felt compassion.  She saw it as though a rope was cut that let go and freed 2 souls from the dark and allowed them to go up to the light.  Both my sister and I felt a lot of peace and love.  It was because my father and the other man were finally free and as if my sister and I were blessed for our work done."

Note:  English is not Diane's first language so this article was edited somewhat for readability.

e-Hugs, Gary


Hi Gary,

I made a session alone with my sister to practice Optimal EFT.  My sister has a lot a health problems:  Fibromyalgia, practically blind, epilepsy, etc.  At 9 years old there was an accident where she was hit by a big truck.  She was left on the roadside as dead. So i always want to help her.

It was my second session with her. So we worked on her eyes, symptoms, pains and so on.  Afterwards we went for the specific event ... the truck accident.

It was hard for her as she remembered the event.  I was watching her feelings and used a small amount of tapping to reduce her emotions temporarily. She was sure the accident was intentional and believed that the driver tried to kill her. So we worked on this and discovered that she was also witness to this same driver hitting another 5 year old boy in front of our house. It was horrible but we kept working.  I don't remember anything about this myself because I was too young.

As we progressed, suddenly the story went further.  Just before these events, our father accidentally killed a 5 year old girl.  It was an accident.  It was not his fault but ... THIS GIRL WAS THE TRUCK DRIVER'S DAUGHTER, the one who hit and practically killed my sister and the little boy.  It was vivid in her memory .   She remembered my father coming at home after the accident and all details ... this was much more than I was thinking at first.

Slowly and with temporary tapping to calm down my sister's emotions, we worked together to understand the pains , griefs, and distress of my father and this man, and both families.  That all their lives were likely filled with grief and they lived and died both with their griefs and memories.

It was hard but at the end, with Optimal EFT, my sister shifted her view and saw the pains of this man after losing his daughter, and the pains of my father and at the end ... we made a last session to send love to both my father and the other man and peace, Forgiveness etc.

My sister now felt compassion.  She saw it as though a rope was cut that let go and freed 2 souls from the dark and allowed them to go up to the light.  Both my sister and I felt a lot of peace and love.  It was because my father and the other man were finally free and as if my sister and I were blessed for our work done.

There was a lot of emotion.  And you understand that I am more than surprised at what happened.  It was a special blessing.

Thanks, Diane